Out With the Old, in With the New!

As far back as I can remember, we as a society have always been excited at the possibilities that come when the clock strikes midnight on December 31^st every year. We are filled with joy and wonder at what the new year might bring.

Some of us are busy making lists, googling a new diet and exercise routine- because THIS year will be the year we lose weight and get fit! Others (myself included), however, spend this time reflecting on what this past year has put us through- the ups and downs, highs and lows.

For me, this was by far the worst year of my life. If not but for the grace of God, I wouldn’t have survived. I lost my father to the big C, our family dog passed, and my daughter, my first born, left and moved 2 states away with only a few weeks’ notice.

Honestly, the only thing that gives me a chuckle is the fact it sounds like my life has become one big fat country song! LOL! I grew up on country. My dad forced me to listen to Randy Travis and Dolly Parton until I wanted to plug my ears with cement, but eventually I caved and became a country addict- but I NEVER actually wanted to LIVE one of their songs.

But here I am. 3 days away from 2023, and I am trying like the dickens to find the positives. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? I can’t say just yet, but I am reading the inspirational quotes, studying positive affirmations, and writing in my brand spanking new planner. All signs are pointing to me having the best year ever, right?

Not even close. The greatest lesson I’ve learned this year is that I am NOT in control- God is. Period. I lost 2 of the most important people in my life and am left with a ridiculous ginormous hole in my heart. What planner is going to fix that? There is only one- the Bible.

One of the most eye-opening words of wisdom I received this year was that we do not do things alone. We might think we are all alone, but the holy spirit is ALWAYS there! I could not have made it through this year without the strength and guidance of the holy spirit. The times when I crumbled and couldn’t speak, the holy spirit took over.

As we write out our New Year’s Eve goals this year, it’s great to have fitness, sleep, mental stability, and an all-around healthier lifestyle, but I challenge you to consider the holy spirit as well. Add it to your resolutions and let it guide you in your words, strength, and wisdom. And Pray. Pray. Pray.

Heavenly Father, thank you for sending your Holy Spirit to comfort us in our weaknesses. You give us strength when we cannot take another step. Guide us into all truth, remind us of your ways, and give us boldness to testify about what you’re doing in our lives. You shape and mold us into a purer reflection of your Son. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.



*Reminder:

Holy Spirit, you are welcome here

Come flood this place and fill the atmosphere

Your glory, God, is what our hearts long for

To be overcome by Your presence, Lord

Your presence, Lord

-Francesca Battistelli  Holy Spirit